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A chastity cage is a pleasurable sex toy that is used for male abstinence. The chastity cage prevents men from experiencing an erection, masturbating or having sex. In the BDSM scene Chastity is very important – men like to give up control of their sexuality in erotic roleplay between dom and sub. Not only the fantasies of the men are fulfilled – in a relationship both partners benefit from this sexual practice. In this article we will introduce you to the advantages of chastity through a chastity cage and show you the possibilities and limitations that arise for you!

Male chastity: where is the appeal?

Chastity with a chastity cage was a torture method in previous centuries. Today it is a popular sex practice in the BDSM scene. Men who want to use a chastity cage love the feeling of submission. The moment the key is handed over to the partner, she gains full control over his sexual arousal. Many couples report that wearing a chastity cage has many benefits for their relationship and sex life:

  • he pays more attention to his partner and tries to meet her needs
  • he develops a sense of romance and becomes creative
  • together you will develop ideas for varied, erotic fantasies
  • he can’t masturbate – so he learns to control his erection over time and only comes during sex when his partner is ready
  • after abstinence he feels the orgasm much more intensely
  • you can live out your fantasy of a relationship with a submissive and a dominant part
  • he will no longer show interest in other women
  • Men who generally feel less lust will discover the fun of sex with a chastity cage – because how does it say? You only realize what you’re missing when you don’t have it anymore! 😉

Depending on how intensively chastity is practiced, she can become the mistress and he the submissive. In this role-playing game, the submissive partner feels a great desire to lose control and follow the partner’s orders – if the rules are not followed, she can punish him.

Buying a chastity cage: What should you pay attention to?

Buying a chastity cage is a big challenge for beginners. The choice is large and all models look seductive. Three points in particular are important when buying: quality, size and material of the chastity cage.

Quality: Quality must be the top priority when making a purchase decision. If you want to buy a chastity cage, you also have to be willing to dig a little deeper into your pocket for the sex toy. The cage fits snugly around the penis and testicles and is often worn for several hours to days at a time. Small material defects can lead to injuries in the genital area. With a chastity cage of inferior quality, you usually only have your fun for a short time – it often happens with poor quality that the chastity cage cannot withstand the pressure of an erection and breaks in the middle! Your partner will also pay attention to high quality – after all, the lock should not open with the slightest effort. Plastic locks don’t stand a chance!

Material: Chastity cages are usually made of stainless steel, plastic, silicone or leather. All materials are of high quality – it depends on what level of chastity you are and what your needs are. Silicone and leather chastity cages are comfortable to wear. They are lightweight and flexible even under clothing. However, they have the disadvantage that they do not limit the erection 100%. Touches on the penis can also be perceived through the material and used for satisfaction. Chastity cages made of this material are particularly suitable for beginners. If you want to practice chastity as part of BDSM and in role play between dom and sub, you can use a cage made of plastic or stainless steel. Penis cages made of stainless steel have some decisive advantages: stainless steel is very robust and keeps the erection in check. The durability is also extremely high, since stainless steel is extremely resistant – in order to damage or deform a penis cage made of stainless steel, enormous forces are required. In addition, stainless steel cages are a visual highlight. Despite all the advantages that stainless steel offers, you first have to get used to the weight and the low flexibility of the material.

Size: The chastity cage must fit properly! For the right size, the length of the penis and the circumference of the base of the penis are measured when flaccid. One centimeter is added to these measurements and you get the right size for the chastity cage. Trusted suppliers give the exact length and diameter as a guide. Also, they offer either different cage designs or sets with different sized rings. Chastity only becomes a pleasure with a suitable cage!

Abstinent with a chastity cage: What are you letting yourself in for?

Many men see the positive aspects of chastity and are drawn to the thought of losing control. But what they are really getting themselves into when they put on a chastity cage is something very few are aware of at first – beginners are sometimes overwhelmed and break off the erotic experiment prematurely. Anyone who is clear about their decision will sooner or later reap the benefits of abstinence. The following points can be very exciting in the course of chastity, but for beginners they seem strange at first:

  • Keeping chastity doesn’t work overnight: Expect a period of 6 to 12 weeks to get used to your penis in the chastity cage
  • the key holder has full control: chastity does not work without a safe word for absolute emergencies
  • the first attempts to wear it outside the four walls will feel strange at first – but over time you will get used to it and notice that nobody will notice your little secret
  • the first few times you experience an erection in a cage will be uncomfortable
  • Hygiene is the be-all and end-all: showering will take more time because you not only have to clean the penis but also the chastity cage and you should take time to shave
  • Depending on the material, the cage has its own weight that you have to get used to

Even if you first have to get used to this new routine and the handling, the advantages of a chastity cage are so good that it is definitely worth trying out chastity once. Anyone who has tried chastity once will usually no longer want to do without chaste phases in their sex life!

Chastity cage – pleasurable chastity with these features!

Anyone who has already gained experience with chastity or is generally active in the BDSM scene will enjoy chastity cages with additional tingling properties. Some models are also connected to a dilator or a stimulation current device.

The dilator is inserted into the urethra. There are models in which a hollow dilator is directly integrated. These can also be worn over a longer period of time. Urinating is not a problem. If you don’t want to wear a dilator permanently next to the cage, you can use individual dilators, which can also be worn as the mood takes you. Electrical stimulation devices are connected directly to the cage and produce a gentle tingling sensation that can even lead to severe pain with stronger electric shocks. Both features increase the arousal and trigger a pleasure pain in the man.

  • Tension Lover - electrical stimulation device

    Tension Lover – electrical stimulation device

  • Cluster Buster - stimulation current device

    Cluster Buster – stimulation current device

  • Pure Vibes - stimulation current device

    Pure Vibes – stimulation current device

  • Tension Lover - electrical stimulation device

    Tension Lover – electrical stimulation device

  • Cluster Buster - stimulation current device

    Cluster Buster – stimulation current device

  • Pure Vibes - stimulation current device

    Pure Vibes – stimulation current device

The chastity cage is not just a means to an end. The cage visually attracts your key holder and she too must resist the temptation to pull out the key and elope with you! This creates a new tingle in the relationship – she likes to be pampered with an erotic clitoris massage or cunnilingus by you and will turn your head. So what are you waiting for? – Experience the advantages of a chastity cage up close and hand over the sexual responsibility to your partner!

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