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Clitoris massage – this is how you drive her crazy!

Clitoris, lust pearl, clitoris or button – the female pleasure center is known by a variety of names for both men and women. But very few people know which tricks men use to pamper their partner’s clitoris. The focus should be on the clitoris more often – with around 8000 nerve endings, the clitoris is more sensitive than any other part of the body. Anyone who pays full attention to the clitoris can give women an inspiring orgasm. This is possible even if the woman normally finds it difficult to have an orgasm. So dear men and women – if you want to surprise your partner, we will show you in the following step-by-step instructions how an erotic clitoris massage works!

Where is the clitoris located?

The clitoris is often referred to as a pearl of pleasure. However, this name has nothing in common with the actual size, because contrary to what many women and men assume, the clitoris is quite large. The visible part of the clitoris is located behind the mons pubis and forms the tip of the converging labia minora. The tip of the clitoris protrudes about 2 centimeters under a fold – also called the clitoral hood. Inside, the clitoris extends up to 9 more centimeters into the vagina and splits into two crura that lie along the labia majora.

When a woman is aroused, the clitoris causes the pelvic area to fill with blood, making it more sensitive. The swelling of the clitoris and thus also the labia has the purpose that the woman’s pleasure center can better come into contact with the man’s penis and enclose it. Only through the contact between clitoris and penis is it possible for most women to reach the climax. But don’t panic, dear men – even if the clitoris is just as highly complex as the women themselves, stimulation is not that difficult with the right hand movements! πŸ˜‰

Step by step to an inspiring orgasm

A clitoris massage is not a quick quickie for in between. This intimate massage requires time, sensitivity and calm. Only relaxed women can get involved in this intense stimulation. So make yourself comfortable before you start the clitoral massage.

1. Create a cozy atmosphere

Trust and relaxation are the focus of a clitoral massage. Only when the woman is relaxed can she fully concentrate on the stimulation and experience a tingling orgasm. It is best to start with an exciting full body massage before venturing into the woman’s pleasure center. Massage candles or 2 in 1 lubricating and massage oil are particularly suitable for this. Lubricant is necessary for the clitoris massage anyway and should be provided during the preparation. If you like it particularly tingling, you can use a lubricant with a heat or cold effect.

2. Advance into the pleasure center

When massaging the clitoris, it is important to slowly work your way up to the clitoris. First, let your fingers slide over the mons pubis and outer labia to slowly increase her arousal. Play with her feeling of pleasure and move away from the vagina again and again, for example by stroking her stomach or the inside of her legs and return to the pleasure center. You will slowly notice how your partner’s feeling of pleasure increases through the gentle touch and how her clitoris and labia slowly swell.

Now you use either the vaginal secretion, saliva or lubricant to massage the clitoris. Start by slowly circling the clitoris with your finger. These circles can be alternately large and small and, of course, also extend over the labia. When you have reached the clitoris, you can stroke the pleasure point with light pressure. Depending on how your partner reacts, run your index finger over the clitoris from top to bottom or bottom to top. With increasing desire, many women like it when you move your index finger quickly on the spot – similar to vibrations from a sex toy. Of course it is also possible to use the other hand, for example by inserting your fingers vaginally while massaging her clitoris to give her double stimulation.

Tipp: If you spoil your partner with cunnilingus from time to time, you can also benefit from this knowledge with a clitoral massage. Women who find it arousing when their partner sucks their clitoris during cunnilingus also find it very erotic when their partner takes their clitoris between their index finger and thumb and gently pulls on it.

3. Clitoris massage with erotic sex toys

In addition to the sensitivity of the partner, women love the vibrations of a sex toy. Vibrating toys can be used in addition to the partner’s clitoral massage or in lonely hours. Massage sticks and lay-on vibrators are particularly suitable for massaging the clitoris because they hit the clitoris precisely. These can also be equipped with a warming function and thus bring even more pleasure with this stimulation technique. Women who prefer a tender tug on the clitoris will experience real joy with the Womanizer. If your partner is having a clitoris massage, it is advisable not to use the vibrating sex toy until the end of the massage. Otherwise, the woman will climax faster than you would like. πŸ˜‰

Important tips to consider when having a clitoris massage!

The clitoris is a highly sensitive area. Anyone who dares to venture into this realm should pay attention to a few points so that the clitoris does not overstimulate and the partner really experiences a breathtaking orgasm:

  • Be gentle: Even if things get wilder in the heat of the moment, the clitoris massage always requires a sure instinct. If too much pressure or friction is applied to the sensitive point, the fun can quickly be over for both partners. Overstimulation of the clitoris is painful and the woman’s lust vanishes immediately.
  • The focus is not on the orgasm: Some women often don’t even know what they like. New stimulation techniques feel exciting and arousing, but they don’t necessarily have to lead to orgasm. Don’t pressure your partner – if she realizes that you expect her to orgasm, she can’t let go. An orgasm is then usually missing.
  • It doesn’t work without moisture: The clitoris itself is not wet. The massage only becomes pleasant through the vaginal secretion, lubricating gel or saliva. Lubricants also offer other gimmicks such as heat and cold effects that make the massage even more tingling and can increase arousal.

A clitoral massage is an intense experience for women. With a little instinct and our guidance, you can drive your partner crazy. Every now and then, erotic massages can bring variety to your love life and are particularly suitable for pampering your partner after a stressful day at work. So what are you waiting for? – With a bit of luck, your partner will return the favor with a testicle or glans massage for the inspiring orgasm. πŸ˜‰ We wish you a lot of fun trying it out!

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