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Yes, sometimes it is not so easy for many women to climax. It doesn’t always have to be that easy, after all, the orgasm isn’t the only great thing about sex! Nevertheless, it is of course best for the lady and also for you as her lover if you come as often as possible. You can find some helpful tips on what you can contribute here.

6 tips to bring women to orgasm

Without time pressure

There’s a moment when almost every woman shuts down: that’s when she feels she needs to deliver a mega-sized orgasm right now. It’s also awesome! So never put pressure on her and instead convey the feeling that you have all the time in the world.
And above all that it’s okay if she doesn’t come today (or you). Because what you do is wonderful, it doesn’t have to be measured solely by a high point.

By the way, pressure is not only a total pleasure killer, but also a very safe way to collect a fake orgasm!

Maintain a focused, carefree mood

Women have the reputation of being really bad at switching off. And there’s something to it! Of course, this is not helpful for unrestrained sex. You should therefore create a pleasant atmosphere for your sex tête-à-tête. Put away dirty socks, put on sexy music and mood lighting.

A stimulating massage can help your loved one switch off. And a real magic potion is a blindfold. With your eyes blindfolded, it is extremely easy to just focus on the here and now, on yourself and you!

Give her confidence

For many girls it is hardly possible to let themselves go because they are latently worried about their look. Sure, it is also shown everywhere how to be desirable women who are young, luscious, big-breasted and yet Size Zero. So be sure to show your lady of hearts how hot you find her. Whether with compliments or actions or both. After all, nobody can have relaxed sex with pulled in belly fat!

Lubricant for everything!

If it doesn’t slide, then it doesn’t buck. This applies not only to intercourse, but also to intimate touching. You can feel every quirk on your fingernail and dry rubbing on sensitive mucous membranes is simply off-putting. A portion of lubricating gel helps immensely and as a nice side effect, you no longer have to wait and see if enough moisture has been produced for vaginal penetration. Incidentally, the latter has long since not only depended on desire and stimulation, but is also type-dependent and cycle-related!

Learn her body

Sex is much more than pure penetration. And every woman, and of course every man too, has several erogenous zones (not just the clitoris & the penis 😉 ) that want to be used differently. And then it all depends on the form of the day…

During foreplay, try to find out what exactly is exciting today through imaginative touches. As soon as you get positive feedback – maybe your loved one will tell you directly, otherwise pay attention to their movements, their breath… – keep going right there. Just don’t stop!

Sextoys als Goodie on Top!

Why not upgrade a little bit? Sex toys are only made to stimulate in a particularly intense way. Whether vibration or air pleasure – sex toys are simply incredibly effective. That’s why you should definitely include her in your lovemaking!
And in addition to your pure effect, you are also saying appreciative things: Your orgasm is important to you. You’re confident enough to drag toys around. You value a playful and experimental sexuality.

My conclusion

What separates good sex from bad imagination and empathy. And the better the sex with a man or woman, the easier it is for SHE to climax. And if it doesn’t come like a shot, then the journey was the goal and maybe it’ll work out next time!

Other posts worth knowing – to bring women to orgasm – can be found here: “6 vagina tips for good lovers”, “As if by a master’s hand: With these 6 techniques you finger HER correctly!” & “Clitoral massage – this is how you drive her crazy!” .

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