A ball gag (or mouth gag) serves as a sex toy and is used especially in the BDSM area.
Most consists of a rubber ball that is pushed behind the teeth.
It also has two straps that go around the head to keep it in place. If you want to create a very exciting and erotic sight, mouth gags are the perfect sex toy for you and your partner!
You can find the best mouth gags in our product recommendations. There you will definitely find a model that will appeal to you.
What is a ball gag used for?
Nowadays, more and more people are using ball gags as part of sexual roleplay, especially BDSM.
According to Jessica Tucker, professional dominatrix and BDSM author at AlphaWolfs Dungeon, gags serve multiple purposes in a BDSM relationship.
“People can wear ball gags for a variety of reasons. Some people derive erotic pleasure from a mouth gag, either in a submissive or dominant role. When combined with other physical restraints, wearing a mouth gag can increase the wearer’s feelings of helplessness and anxiety in a BDSM scene, as they are unable to speak during sexual activity, which some people enjoy.”
She also points out that wearing a mouth gag can be used as punishment and control. Additionally, some fetishists are sexually aroused by the sound of a gagged partner, and some enjoy the drooling that comes with prolonged gag wear.
Who can wear a ball gag?
Of course only if you want! Typically, ball gags are for those who want to try a submissive position (subs) or role. Giving up control and/or power can be both mentally and sexually stimulating for some. For the one in the dominant position, it’s exactly the opposite: when someone trusts you so much that he/she voluntarily relinquishes control because he/she knows you keep him/her safe and responsible, it’s also a great ego boost, if not sexually arousing.
Basically, sexual kinks and fetishes don’t need to be explained as long as consent is always given and you enjoy it. In the end, the decision as to who wears the mouth gag is always left to the person themselves. If you don’t want to wear the mouth gag, you don’t have to.
What do I need to pay attention to when purchasing?
Here the gagged person can never be left alone! The person must be able to breathe freely through the nose. Likewise, the saliva must be able to flow freely from the mouth so that there is no risk of suffocation. In the event of panic or shortness of breath, the mouth gag must be able to be removed quickly. It is therefore best to have a safe character. You can read more safety tips below.
Variants of ball gags
Let’s just say gags are made from a variety of materials and come in a variety of sizes! Here we briefly introduce the different types of mouth gags:
- Gagball: The classic! Some ball gags have additional breathing holes in the ball.
- O-ring: The ring gag fulfills a similar function as the ball gag. Instead of a ball, however, a metal ring is pushed behind the teeth and fixed with a strap behind the head.
- Gag harness: A gag harness not only has a gag, but also a head harness.
- Gag masks: This is nothing more than a BDSM mask with a ball gag.
- Pump gag: This gag is inserted into the mouth and can then be enlarged by pumping.
- Dildo gag: With this type of ball gag, it ends up in the shape of a dildo
- Spider Gag: Another ring-shaped gag, but this one clamps at the corners of the mouth.
- Bits Gag: Gag as a staff to bite on.
Materials for ball gags
Here we show which materials are often used for mouth gags:
- Latex: When someone thinks of BDSM, many think of latex. These are often dildo gags, where the dildo is made of latex. Latex is easy to clean and gives a hot fetish look!
- Manager: This should not be missing in your BDSM collection. A leather gag is a gag that is attached to the head with a leather harness.
- Silicone: Silicone is the most common material.
- Plastic: These are very sturdy and easy to clean.
- Gummi: It’s fairly soft and easy to bite, but firm enough to rest your teeth on comfortably.
Rubber and latex harnesses also have their disadvantages, e.g. B. Rubber is porous and latex can tear easily.
select size
- EXTRA SMALL: 38mm – This is perfect for beginners who have small mouths or who have problems with jaw opening.
- Small: 45mm – Most standard size
- Medium: between 52 and 55 mm – suitable for advanced users
- Large: 60 mm – Note the size here
- Extra large: 70 mm – this is as big as a tennis ball!
IMPORTANT: Choose a size that fits the wearer’s mouth and stretches comfortably. The level of experience of the wearer should also play a role.
In addition, some companies indicate the diameter of the sphere, others the circumference. This is annoying, but with a few simple calculations the problem can be solved.
The easiest way is to give the diameter, because that’s the number by which you can tell if the ball will fit in your mouth. If you only know the perimeter, just divide that number by pi = 3.14.
safety instructions
With all BDSM practices you should trust the passive partner and feel comfortable! You should also agree on a safety word, or in the case of a gag, a safety sign. It is also extremely important that you should never leave your partner alone!
- Blink in a specific pattern.
- Nod your head or shake it from side to side.
- Tap the floor with your fingers, hands, elbows, or feet.
One more thing. People with diabetes, heart or lung problems, a tendency to seizures, or claustrophobia should not be gagged. In addition, the influence of strong medicines, drugs or alcohol is taboo!
So don’t forget:
- Have a nonverbal safe word
- Set a time limit for beginners
- Make sure the person does not have a cold or sinus problems.
- Make sure the person doesn’t have an upset stomach.
- Make sure the person can still breathe.
- Never leave the person alone while wearing the gag.
- Never wear the gag for too long (maximum 20 minutes for beginners)
To clean
Almost all types of sex toys can be cleaned with liquid soap and water and then air dried. Please ensure that toys with leather straps are sufficiently cared for with leather grease so that you can use your toy for a long time.
It’s just as important to clean a gag after each use as it is to clean a dildo or butt plug. After all, they are bodily fluids and oral infections are still possible.
- Use warm water and soap (antibacterial optional).
- Be careful with holes, grooves, indentations or other hard-to-clean areas
- Dry and store in a silk pouch, clean box or appropriate storage container
- Occasionally disinfect (hot water, 10% bleach solution, etc.)
WARNING: Not all materials can be disinfected. Leather and rubber are porous and will never be 100% clean. Sharing your toys with others can lead to the transmission of STDs.
Conclusion
A ball gag is really an entry-level device into the BDSM scene. They’re not difficult to use, they come in a variety of different materials, and they’re not expensive either. Still, the purpose of gags is devilishly simple & they add new dimensions to what would otherwise be considered average playtime.
Ball gag safety should be one of the most important considerations when choosing the right gag. Start with something that has trustworthy straps, a soft silicone ball, and no metal that might end up being uncomfortable. Many people are turned off by bondage if the wrong gag is used, as the mouth is such a conspicuous area of the body should something come into contact with it.
Ultimately, however, gags are an irreplaceable piece of bondage gear as long as you give them the right thought beforehand. So go ahead, buckle up and have the time of your life!
