Already they start by giving 3 safe values which are almost sure to hit the mark without taking too much risk:
- Hitachi Magic Wand 55€ chez Splem
I confirm this one is really good
- Jack Rabbit Vibrator 42.90€ chez Splem
Classic but very effective too
- Jelly Gumdrop Vibrator 12.99$ sur trustedpleasures
Never tested and I have not found an equivalent in France
To these three sex toy tips Askmen adds an article listing some rules to follow to help you find the right sex toy:
find it and buy it
Once you’ve decided what kind of sex toy you want, you’ll need to find and buy it. And for that the internet is your friend. You can buy it online or walk into a Sexshop and discuss the different options with a salesperson. If you choose to enter a “real” Sexshop, you can get good advice from the shop staff; they breathe latex fumes and discuss the most obscene and exciting matters all day long; they know what they are talking about and are not shy. It’s better to walk in and discuss your purchase with the seller than to go around and awkwardly search for something you don’t know yet. Shopping for sex toys online is also a safe and embarrassing solution as it is much more discreet and anonymous.Don’t forget the lubricant
Sex toys are generally better; it is easier and more pleasant to use them with the lubricant, so think of the lubricant (preferably water-based so as not to damage a possible condom. 😉
The biggest are not the best
When buying a dildo or phallic vibrator for a girl, don’t think bigger is better. Most women prefer to masturbate with something that has the appearance of a penis and especially the same proportions. Otherwise smaller in size which would be more like a woman’s finger.
If you don’t know her too well and don’t know what she would like, stay on the safe side and avoid dildos, double dongs and other butt plugs. A simple vibrator will do
Silicone, rubber, metal, or glass
Silicone and rubber provide the most realistic feel and are always a good choice. They are also very safe, and can get warm under a tap.
Metal is a poor choice to start with because it’s very cold, although its firmness can be a strong point. On the other hand, metal has the advantage of being rather aesthetic.
There are some very nice glass dildos available. The glass has a very smooth feel, and can be cooled or heated to give it some variety.
If in doubt, go for silicone. Silicone is neither too soft nor too hard and is durable and hygienic, it is an excellent choice for sex toys.
Value for money
Do not try to save a few cents because what we are looking for is quality. A sex toy that breaks down or breaks down at the wrong time could be catastrophic. (I would add that some low-priced sex toys can be made from materials that are not very pleasant or even poorly assembled, so be sure to do so.)Give it to him
There are a number of ways to do this. If you want it to be a surprise, the classiest thing you can do is wrap it up and gift it with a sexy note. If you want to use it with her, you could put it under the pillow and suddenly give it to her, although this approach could have negative consequences if, for some reason, she didn’t like your purchase.
If you care how you give it, go for the safe: Warn her, and give it to her in a non-sexual situation so she won’t feel uncomfortable.
Here I hope not to have made too much of a mistake in this translation inspired by google. But I think it was worth it because some advice is far from being stupid!
Hope this helps you gentlemen.
Source:
- Askmen.com
- Fluctuat.net
- Spleen